Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) Relationship Therapy

Affirming Therapy for Polyamorous, Open & Ethically Non-Monogamous Relationships

Love does not follow one script.

At BelongSpace, your relationship is a living system. 

I am trained in Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM Level I), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy.   My work is relational, attachment-informed, trauma-aware, and anti-oppressive. 

We explore how systemic stress, shame, and attachment wounds can intensify jealousy, insecurity, or conflict and how emotional safety can be rebuilt without compromising identity.

Common areas we work on:  

  • Jealousy, insecurity & comparison
  • Creating agreements & boundaries
  • Repair after broken trust
  • Attachment triggers in poly structures
  • Balancing autonomy and accountability
  • Minority stress & jealousy intersections
  • Cultural & family rejection concerns   

I support partners communicating clearly using “think–feel–want” language by:

  • Slow down reactive cycles.
  • Name fear without shame.
  • Differentiate rules from agreements.

Together, we strengthen your capacity to say:

  • This is what I feel.
  • This is what I need.
  • This is what I am afraid of losing.

Whether you are newly opening your relationship or have been practicing polyamory for years, therapy can help deepen emotional safety, strengthen trust, and build relational resilience. 

Come as you are.
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Consent, Readiness & Mutual Engagement (Poly/CNM Relationships)

Consent is ongoing. Revisited at any time.

  • Therapy moves forward only when all partners feel informed, willing, and safe to participate. Sessions may pause if these conditions are not met.
  • In polyamorous and consensually non-monogamous (CNM) relationships, the relationship system is the shared client.
  • All partners have equal standing in the process and are encouraged to engage in an honest, transparent, and mutually agreed manner.
  • Consistent with a no-secrets approach, information shared in individual or joint sessions is held in ways that support the well-being of the relationship as a whole and its shared therapeutic goals.